I’m finally back in Birmingham!
I swear yesterday was torture, after an 11 hour journey I had to set up my room in my new accommodation. And that took ages, when I finished it was 1:30 am UK time. But at least I can now proudly say that I live in there. I’m not quite settled in yet but that’ll happen with time.
It’s just sooo cold… I’m freezing, personally I didn’t think it’ll be this bad but IT IS! I’m even heating (just my room) but it doesn’t help… Damn I’m sure I’ll be sick soon. I wish it was 10 degrees warmer, but that is unlikely.
Tomorrow I’m going to have my first lectures as a second year! Right away it’ll be one of the hardest modules: Prolog Programming. We’ll see if I’ll be able to understand anything.
Totally out of topic:
Do you have any foreign friends? If so how do you feel if you went out with maybe 2-3 of the with the same home country and all of them speak in a language you don’t understand? Do you feel offended, annoyed or even disappointed?
In my case I feel sad. Every time it happens to me I’ll feel disappointed and think “Why am I here again?”. I understand that it’s easier for them to talk in their language and it flows easier but then they should not invite me… It’s even worse when, some time during the talk, I’ll be asked “Why aren’t you saying anything?”. Well duh I don’t even know what you’re talking about how should I input my opinion???
Seriously I don’t mind people talking in a different language, even I do sometimes but not every f$&*ing time! Because of that I even dread going out with them if I know that 3+ of them are going to be there +me. I went shopping with all of them once and will never do so again. It’s impossible they don’t even consider telling me where they want to go or what they are looking for, no they just expect me to understand.
They are still good friends of mine really but honestly I do everything in my might to avoid having them with me in groups or at least have somebody else with me that doesn’t understand them. So that we can talk about whatever while they can talk in whichever language.
I’m sorry if that sounds a bit racist, that wasn’t my intention. Its just that it really saddens me because every time I meet somebody from my home country I pay attention to those around me and include them in the conversation. But they don’t even though we are friends.
Ok I think thats enough ranting… I’ll just leave and try to get warmed up now, maybe a shower will help.. hopefully.